Death by Love — What it did to our relationship?

Let me take you on to some bits and pieces of my life journey with my life partner. It’s a tale of education, that is so profound that it makes my soul dance, a feel that is the very essence of life’s natural processes — birth and death.

A Spiritual Awakening: Embracing Love in the form of conversations in Nature

Our (weekend) strolls often led us to secluded spots where we could sit and talk about the teachings of Hinduism, philosophy and life. My partner would recount tales of love. She talks about symbols of divine connections, and Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati, whose union represents the balance of cosmic forces. These stories, rich with spiritual meaning, helped me see our relationship as a journey of eternal souls bound together by love.

As we continued our walks, I experienced a huge transformation in the intensity and the mutual explorations we had in our relationship. We started to view each other as eternal souls on a shared journey, guided by the principles of Karma and the power of the cosmos. We were attributing each step of our journey to the divine.

This perspective infused our lives with a sense of purpose and spiritual depth, allowing us to navigate life’s challenges with grace and unity. These experiences, shared amidst the beauty of nature, taught us that love is not just an emotion but a spiritual practice. It’s a path to understanding the interconnectedness of all beings, a journey that continues to guide us through the ebbs and flows of life.

Engaging in Mutual-Reflection

As we walked, we often take moments of silence to reflect individually and as a pair. We use the time to consider our physical and spiritual journey, our values, and what truly matters to us. The peacefulness of the woods helped clear our mind, making it easier to connect with our inner self and gain insights into our (spiritual) beliefs.

We started finding an alignment in our spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical selves. Understanding each other’s viewpoints on spirituality helped us create a strong foundation for our relationship, most importantly it helped us develop empathy, respect, and mutual support for each other. The shared experience of walking in the woods can symbolize our journey together, both in nature and in life.

I believe that mutual reflection is the basic ingredient that can strengthen the bond between partners, creating a relationship that is both spiritually and emotionally fulfilling.

Respecting, Sharing, Discussing Beliefs and finding Common Grounds

What we as a pair soon realized that, “every individual has a unique (spiritual) journey shaped by personal experiences, values, and insights”. We discuss how to acknowledge these and started to understand that appreciating these differences is crucial for a healthy relationship. By showing respect and openness, you create a safe space where both partners feel valued and understood.

Growth Through Adversity

Viewing challenges through a shared (spiritual) lens helped us adopt a perspective that made us see beyond the immediate struggle. It’s about embracing change and being open to new possibilities, even when they push us outside our comfort zones. Practicing gratitude helped us focus on the blessings we have, fostering resilience and a deeper connection to the divine.

Trusting in the Divine Plan

This is the strongest unison we had as a pair — Like a river guided by its course, we trusted that our path, though uncertain, has been leading us toward greater (spiritual) fulfillment. In a spiritual analogy, challenges are not merely obstacles but integral parts of our journey, shaping us into the individuals we are meant to be. By embracing them with faith, perspective, and gratitude, we can navigate life’s river with courage and grace, growing ever closer to our spiritual and personal potential.

Finally, we believe that

As we navigate the intricate fabric of life, love at any given point of time emerges as a guiding force — one that invites us to explore the depths of our souls, embrace our differences, and grow together through both joy and adversity. In the journey of love, every challenge becomes a stepping stone, guiding us toward deeper connection and spiritual growth.

Relationships are not merely connections; they are spiritual journeys that challenge us to reflect, communicate, and evolve.

As each one of us walk hand-in-hand through the woods of life, let us cherish each moment, the conversations that inspire us, and the challenges that shape us. In the end, it is this journey of love — filled with both trials and triumphs — that truly defines us, guiding us toward a future brimming with hope, connection, and endless possibilities.

May the divine be an eternal guiding force for all!